For social competency:

  • Teach him what to say, how to say it, when to say certain words in appropriate situations

 

  • Teach him to stop, look, listen and weigh alternatives in puzzling situations

 

  • Train him to observe non-verbal cues (if he doesn’t get it, quietly and patiently explain the idea)

 

    • Explain the rules of social problems and help him get all the information he needs in social situations before making any decisions to act.

 

  • Give him plenty of outside experiences even though he does not like novel situations. Whenever there is a novel experience (a substitute teacher, a field trip, a change in schedule, etc. tell him ahead of time and discuss the strategies he will use to get through these different times)

 

  • Use verbal rehearsal and “walk throughs” done step-by-step in anticipation of novel experiences.

 

  • Teach self advocacy by helping him know his strengths in learning; and make sure he has all his available learning tools: calculator, computer, software that is helpful.

*Reference: Rourke, Byron P. “Treatment Programme for the Child with NLD”, November, 1994.